OPTIONAL
(Read by Family or Friends)
(Can be added to any ceremony)
A) Now two readings that express the sense of joy and love on this occasion.
The first is called 'To My Friend'
I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you.
I love you not only for what you have made of yourself, but for what you are making of me.
I love you because you have done more than any creed could have done to make me good, and more than any fate could have done to make me happy.
You have done it without a touch, without a word, without a sign.
You have done it by being yourself.
Perhaps that is what being a friend means, after all.
B) We have a great body of literature written about human love.
One writer says that it is not the extraordinary things that make life worthwhile but the love we share with those around us.
Scripture describes it this way:
Love is patient and kind; love is not jealous or boastful; it is not arrogant or rude.
Love does not insist on its own way; it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs, but rejoices with the truth.
Love always protects, always trusts, always hopes, love never gives up...
Three things remain: faith, hope and love.
But the greatest of these is love.
C) Reading written by Walter Pinder
Everyday you live, learn how to receive love with as much understanding as you
give it.
Find things within yourself, then you can share them with each other.
Do not fear this love.
Have an open heart and a sincere mind.
Be sincerely interested in each other's happiness.
Be constant and consistent in your love.
From this comes security and strength.
All that we love deeply becomes a part of us on this day of your marriage.
Try to commit yourselves fully and freely to each other.